Mothers-in-Law vs. Daughters-in-Law: Let There Be Peace Paperback – May 15, 2010

I was a little skeptical but I was both pleasantly surprised and grateful for the input in this book. It offers great advice with real experiences from both the mother in law side as much as the daughter in law side. It was very well written and it often times made me put my whole situation into perspective that both made me feel a little more comforted but also acknowledged my feelings. I definitely recommend this book to any MIL or DIL who is having a hard time connecting with their in laws. It does not provide an instant miracle trick but it does remind you that it’s a process that will take time and effort but if you practice what she teaches you can find some peace. I myself am still trying to practice these tips, and it’s not easy, but when you’re aware of what the other person may be feeling, it does help you rationalize more with your head than heart. Awesome read!

Oh my goodness! This book is incredible! After reading many in-law books over the years, I felt this kind of book needed to be out there. I even attempted to scratch one out myself, but realized I wasn't up to the task. This one answered with a punch! (And great humor!) It truly has the power to transform you. My favorite insight is how you can improve your life even if you can't improve your relationship. That much is within your control! (Likely you will do both, even if it takes awhile.) I have to tell you, the advice is meat and not milk. This is not for the faint of heart, but you will be living without regrets. (This is biblically based on both the Old and New Testament, but the truths are universal.)As a practical primer, I also recommend The Mothers-In-Law Manual. It's great common sense advice by a Jewish counselor who brings a delightful sense of perspective and humor to the situation and represents both sides fairly. She makes it very clear what is at stake and why it is worth expending the effort. There are likely other good releases, but I can vouch for these.

Pretty good book. None of it really related to my personal situation with my MIL. However, the one thing that helped was that I also will be a MIL one day. My son will marry, and I will want to be a part of my grandchildren's lives.

I have read through this book once, and then I went back and have re-read several chapters. I think the author does a good job of putting both perspectives into each situation. I think we each have our flaws, and this book helps you to identify yours, and show you how it looks from your in-laws viewpoint. The only behavior you can change is your own, and I think this book does a great job of bringing this point home. I have gotten in the habit of reading certain chapters before we visit with my in-laws (they're 2 hours away, so we often spend the weekend). I am not sure if it has helped tangibly, but I feel I can understand my MIL better and that I can check my reactions better. All in all, I am glad that I bought this book! I would recommend it to anyone trying to navigate this new relationship!

This book is a blessing. I like the faithful approach of the author. It helped in my transition to mother-in-law. My favorite thing learned was the sooner the groom becomes completely in the wife's loyalty, the happier everyone is. I bought three books and this was my favorite. Practical assignments at the end of each chapter. One of the other books was a sterile psychology based book which seems common in the industry. The insights from a godly perspective were MUCH better for me. This is a faith-promoting book. Another realization that I came up with after reading the book was to "let go of the past so that God could make a new future" for me and my DIL. It helped my relationship with my son and DIL, and helped me to regain my sanity from "losing" my son. GREAT book! I highly recommend it!

I bought this book to try and find some light on the miserable and stressful relationship I have with my mother-in-law. Although the author makes some great point and arguments it is very one sided towards the daughter in law doing all the work. And my mother in law refuses to read it so the book is kind of a mute point for this women's relationship. Concluding that women are just mean and the tougher you are the better off. Be a duck and let it roll off.

This book has been such a wonderful help for me. I feel like it was written just for me. After years of feeling like the unloved in law this book has given me information to use to hopefully have a successful relationship with my in laws. I want to thank Elisabeth for listening to God and for writing it. I have read it once and plan to read it again to savor the important details. I would highly recommend this book to any one who has a mother in law or daughter in law.

Fantastic book! Excellent bridle shower gift to both wife to be and mother in law to be. Every engaged female should read this and prevent the issues before they ever arise. I read, studied and re-read this book. I refer to my notes every time I start to feel tension with my MIL. The book gives practice advice that you can immediately apply to your life and your MIL relationship. Well worth the money and your time. I only wish there were an audible version for busy moms.