Victors and Victims: Are You Being Held Back by a Victim Mentality? Paperback – December 9, 2014

I read this book over the weekend. It will be on my book shelf (in my kindle) and a book that I will refer to over and over again.I think it is a must read and applicable in all areas of my life. It has allowed me to have a deeper understanding what makes me and others do what they do and how one receives information.I have studies many topics like gifting, personalities, love and apology languages, learning styles and communication styles and the list goes on..... this is another missing link. In many of those that I have studied they look at the area of control as a weakness. This book validates my Control as a strong force. It empowers me to use it in an interdependent way.This book has been an eye opener.It has helped me to understand how I and others receive information depending on what style of power they are and what source Brute ( independent) or Market (interdependent).I am walking more confidently in who I am created to be and have been empowered into an area that I once thought was a weakness. I have walked all my christian life trying to contain or snuff out who God created me to be. Control is a strength! One things I have learned about the control in me has been fine tuned over the years. I have not arrived but I am not who I use to be. Thank you Holy Spirit.This book also validated another area that I have struggled with for a long time. The Victor verses Victim mentality. I have been struggling so hard with the fact that there is so much focus on the flesh and looking at the wounds. My desire is to focus on the Victory and all Christ has done in and for us. I want to lead people to Victory and not spend any more time then needed in the victim mentality. We have all been victims but God paid the price for us to overcome and become Victors!This book has so inspired me around this topic and has also brought validation to the direction my heart was being lead.This is a must read.It was just what I needed for this season, for such a time as this.Thank you Ken for following the prompting of your heart to write this book.Lynette Albrecht

One of the most progressive books of our day. Ken Harrison has been able to cut through the noise of rhetorical, feel good, pop psychology, self-improvement books to the essentials of what truly matter; having impact and improving conditions. The material not only identifies what can advance the reader, he helps the reader get in touch with their true identity so that they can be effectively helping those in which they have relationship. It is an awesome read and a must for anybody who's in managementPDF

I got this book near the end of grieving a loss and deciding how I wanted to move forward with life.

Life Changer! This book is really the missing link in pursing your God given passion in life. Being a victor is really about knowing who you really are and giving to the world that person. Explains in simple terms how the way we look at life and the way we communicate differently is really what sets us apart. Too many other books try to complicate personality etc. Cant wait till them come out with a training guide and class. I will be the first one in line. Going to read this one again this weekend!

I really ask thank for this book. . It combines practicality with truth. It was also a big relief to me to find out there were other people like me. Now that I know what I can offer the world I can start building on my strengths and, understand vI was not made to be like everyone else.

Book started out pretty good but I started getting some racist vibes so I stopped reading. Maybe that's just me but Meh.

This is one of the greats books I have read. I would require or greatly hint to my employee’s to read it. The content is applicable and needed in our society. I believe. If you implement this books content. It will help you relate to others or create a better healthier organization behavior structure.

I am reading this for the seventh time. There is so much value in this book that I pick up new things I missed each time I read it. I have already purchased several copies that I have sent to friends. I highly recommend this book!