The Soul of Money: Transforming Your Relationship with Money and Life Reprint Edition

I loved this book because it brings up a needed discussion on two opposing and conflicting values over money.1. Dominated and respected quantitative analyses: the analytical, patriarchal, "sophisticated," science-based, and higher status by the investment communities, financial institutions, do-it-yourselfers, and the financial adviser organizations (Author calls this “Money and Me”).2. Less respected and lower status qualitative analyses: memoir type, feeling-based, and the psychology of money (Author calls this “Money and Us”).The did-it-yourself personal finance communities often complain about the public, spouses, friends, and relatives are not interested in learning and discovering the investment process. Perhaps it's because the quantitative analysis conversation dominates the bookstores and online discussion forums. Arcane vocabulary, acronyms, numbers, models, Excel spreadsheets, and formulas dominate the conversation. Is it that big of a surprise that the public is rightfully turned off?Enter the qualitative analysis side of the conversation: The Soul of Money is an attempt to motivate the folks that don’t understand or are intimated by the impersonal language of the quantitative analyses communities. I applauded the author and gave her five stars because she took on an enormous challenge and did about as best as any author could do under the circumstances.More books and articles need to make the qualitative side of the debate a constant conversation when the subject of the economy, stock market, and who wins or losses.The dominant conversation about the Money and Me “values” is tough with the winner-take-all world of the financial industry. Winning is much sexier and powerful sounding than balance, soul, emotion, and “touchy-feely” experiences. The airwaves are 100% “Money and Me.”But the qualitative conversation of “Money and Us” will help us find inner peace and individual happiness for us and the world. Additionally, we all want more of the public learning to manage their money.The next time your uncle brags about how smart and sophisticated he is because he got lucky over a huge investment return, remind him of what you will learn from this book. Be respectful and calmly begin a conversation about the proper balance between money as a means to an end vs. money as a means to more and deeper meaningful relationships.Of course, we love our “uncles,” and the entire quantitative community means well. It’s their character and investment philosophy, which is too dependent and allocating too much power to money. The financial forums are full of “uncles.” I learned a lot from these characters and their books, and the financial forums where I hang out, and I think everyone would benefit. I like their impersonal and sometimes complicated tome with statistics, indexing vs. active management debate, smart beta, and graphs too.This book, however, finishes the job of seeking a healthy financial balance. You don’t have to learn most of the complicated investment terminology to construct a Zen-type, low-cost, diversified portfolio.Here are some of my favorites topics (of many):1. “This thing we call money”2. “Enough”3. “Scarcity vs. Sufficiency”4. “Human values to consumer values”One of my favorite chapters is “This Thing We Call Money.” Quoting:” …money was invented to facilitate the sharing of exchanging goods and services among individuals and groups….” Humans began attributing power to money over the centuries. We need to get back to the conversation of money’s original facilitative role. Since the middle ages, religious leaders of the time frowned at people talking about money publicly. Silence has made the situation far worse because we are drowned out by the dominating marketing, sales, and the “sophisticated” financial conversation.Just turn on CNBC and listen to the nonstop petty issues:• monetary policy• interest rates• the hot stock tip of the day• individual stock winners and losers (of the day, week, month, quarter, and year)• the hot mutual fund manager for the year• hot hedge fund manager of the year• endless and useless predictions of the stock market, bond market, and individual company stocks performance by the end of today, next week, next month, next quarter and at the end of the year• and the biggest distraction—domestic and international politics, North Korea, Iran, Syria and all its machinations.The above topics are unhealthy, unrealistic, and overly complicated for us ordinary consumers: Quote: “…somewhere along the way the power we give money outstripped its original utilitarian role.” We cannot compete when Wall Street and the nonstop financial media has all the cards and monopolizes the conversation the useless topics above. IGNORE all of those topics and news items--we have no control anyway, except at the ballot box. The author argued that we must find our way back to the original “utilitarian role.” She shared many examples of different cultures and countries of her passion, “Hunger Project,” fund raising, and organizing to finance good causes.The financial industry was developed and successfully sold the idea that money, and the management of it, is external. Thus, we need smart and sophisticated “experts” trained in Evy League schools using powerful computer technology to quantify, predict, create ever more powerful and persuasive sales pitches to sell the newest and hottest investment idea. Wall Street has done well, but the secret is that they make money whether the stock and bond market goes up or down (It’s not that newest technology or that latest and hottest product). They make money on trading your investments! That’s not the “utilitarian role.” The passive strategy communities would agree to keep your money away from Wall Street and the big banks because of high costs and active management failures.Enough. The author’s discussion of “scarcity” vs. “sufficiency” was particularly relevant, especially to those of us who live and practice frugal living to be financially independent. Scarcity might be the basis of the incentive argument coming from the father of capitalism. Adam Smith has a valid argument for business owners about incentives. But Lynne, the author, was talking to us consumers. While she did not specifically say this, I understood her to say to me what I have practiced about purchasing cars. Do we have to trade in our 3-year-old car that still runs great and it is paid off? No, just because everybody trades their 3-year-old car in for a new car, and has chronic car payments. The sufficiency model argues for keeping your cars for ten or more years because that used car is “enough.” Furthermore, the one bathroom house is enough, and sending your children to good public schools and colleges is enough. Powerful stuff. But consumers cannot underestimate the hideous incentive of keeping up with the Jones, and the powerful and corporate systemic resistance to having “enough.” Once again, the personal finance community would agree about living within your means and saving and investing for the future.Speaking of “enough,” when the author published her book, it was before John Bogle’s book of the same name “Enough.” She would have loved Mr. Bogle’s book because he supported the same life philosophy (see my review of Bogle’s “Enough”). As we know, Bogle has a solid right foot in the quantitative side of the argument, but his left foot is in the “Soul of Money” too. He is one of the most respected investment thought leaders of the 20th and 21 centuries. The octogenarian is the founder of the indexing strategy empire and Vanguard Group. But he too was (and still is) subjected to criticism from Wall Street “Money and Me” power. I believe the author and Mr. Bogle would have very similar life philosophies regarding the utilitarian role of money in our lives.The rest of my review is about this author’s attempt at establishing that lasting conversation. I just don’t think a concise language exists yet that can effectively argue this balance qualitative side. There are the usual criticisms of this genre of money books: repetitive, long, too personal, not “tough” or strong enough with solid science, statistics and tables, and graphs. But some of these criticisms of being wishy-washy, “touchy-feely” or even support a socialist takeover of the government are over-the-top. These comments are both hilarious and offensive. I don’t read books that are against my values, so why would anybody so set in with the power of “money and me” would care to read this money-related book titled with the word “soul?” What do the nay-sayers expect?Writing a book that shows people a realistic way to have a relationship with money is tough. Our culture doesn’t have the consciousness to recognize the power of individuals changing instead of waiting (and complaining) that the politicians, policymakers, or corporate America should be doing what we want. Our political system is broken, and we all know this. So, this is a great opportunity for us to step up to the plate. As Gandhi said, “Be the change you want in the world.”The author made that clear throughout the book of the personal rewards of changing ourselves, “…wealth means being present to the fullness and richness of the moment and sharing that with one another.” Share your values, your dreams, and your enthusiasm! In this era of acute and endless pessimism, be different and look at what is good about people.Living within our means, being happy with what you got, and saving for a rainy day have been basic to American values since the beginning of our republic. But somewhere along the way, my baby boomer generation took the consumer side of bigger and newer things than ever before. The author accurately summarizes how our country’s values have shifted from “qualities of citizenry and personal character to consumer spending and economics: from human values to consumer values.” She is spot on, and I think we can all agree Americans spend too much.All the major and minor religious teachings preach that “wealth” of sharing and helping others brings happiness to both others and us. Last I heard, we all want to be happy. Thanks to the millennial generation blogosphere, there are many online financial independent communities with millions of views (Mr. Money Mustache is the perfect example). We are beginning to change the conversation to what the author outlines: less is more, less material things, less stress, change your dreams from the unhealthy radical individualism, and harmful self-cherishing to helping the entire planet be a better place for everyone.

The stories that Lynne Twist bring out in her book show how when we use the mindset of “you and me” to collaborate how we transform lives and communities for better. This is a great read not on our personal money issues but how we should use money as an instrument and give it a job to do good. This is definitely a re-read for me and can’t wait to dig deeper into the book again and put into practice the philosophy behind the book. I have marked it all up with thoughts and notes and now to take those and put together how to put it all into practice. Thank you Lynne for writing this book.

I started reading this book in early December and fell in love with it. As a financial professional with a great deal of spiritual experience, I work with my clients on clarifying their relationships with money. I felt like Lynn Twist was speaking to the mind and heart of the issues that keep many of us in a state of fear and scarcity. I wish EVERYONE would read this book and walk away with an expanded world view... one that supports their participation in life with a sense of sufficiency and an appreciation for the benefits collaboration. There is enough - time - love - money - food - everything! We are enough and we can each make a difference. I was so inspired to share this book that I ordered 150 copies, lovingly wrapped each one and tied it with a ribbon, added a card and my holiday letter sharing my appreciation and love for the recipient and our work together, and Priority Mailed all 150 to clients, family and friends over the Holidays. It took me two weeks of continuous focus - the entire time I was immersed in a mission of sharing a message so beautiful and so profound that it made my heart sing! I'm currently reading The Soul of Money a second time and highlighting nearly every page.

A wonderful treatise of the proposition of sufficiency. A call to all of us to do the most with the resources we possess.

This book has helped me change my ideas on money and my finances. I have always lived in fear and lack now I trust in the Universe to provide for all my needs and wants. I have everything that I want and much more than I need!!! I am very grateful that I found this book.Thank you,Jo-Ellen 😊😊😊

I met Lynn Twist when the original version of this book had just come out many years ago. This is a favorite on my shelf and I often buy it as a gift for people. I work in nonprofit fundraising and recommend it often. It literally changed my life and the way I work view fundraising and philanthropy.

Overall, the author makes a compelling case for thinking about money in a higher context, and for larger purposes than the greedy accumulation of stuff.I did enjoy reading the book. It is well written, and easy to read with some very compelling stories. And it conveys the real value of money, when used for a noble purpose.Although the author has been immersed in abject poverty, desperate need and terrible human conditions all over the world, it lacks a little bit of credibility in that she’s had the means to pursue a life of selflessness, all the while having a safety net to fall back on.Of course, doing kindness for others and giving what we can to causes as we believe in, is its own reward. So we should help others along wherever we can to the extent we can, willingly. It is its own reward.

I fully expected there to be rips, or there to be writing in the book, bends in the spine, but this book is nearly in pristine condition