Mr Unavailable & the Fallback Girl: The Definitive Guide to Understanding Emotionally Unavailable Men and the Women that Love Them Kindle Edition

Amazing book by Natalie Lue. I’ve been listening to her podcast for a few months and I finally got this book when I found out about it. The writing is a little bit unedited and could use being edited and re-published for clarity, but the content is pure gold. It might read easier if you’re already a podcast listener.It’s really helped me move through a break up with an unavailable man, and look at how I have been unavailable and how I have played into unavailable relationships in my life.Honestly, the book is so accurate and on point that at times I’ve had to stop reading and just let it wash over me and process and sink in. Sometimes it’s uncomfortable and I cringe.These are the things that women are not being told about relationships with unavailable man and these are the things we need to know in order to not waste our time with them.Unavailable relationships are draining and exhausting and they cost us so much in terms of time, money, effort and psychic and spiritual and emotional pain with men who simply are not worth it and who we will never be able to have the kind of relationships we want.This book and Natalie‘s other work has allowed me to start getting really thoughtful and informed about what I want and who I am and why what I say I want has not aligned with what I’ve actually done in my life.Thanks to Natalie’s work, I’m taking time for the first time in 20 years to really sort through and process my baggage. I’m tired of being exhausted and depleted by my crap relationships and I’m ready for better.Spend the money. You won’t regret it. See my other reviews to know that I don’t just blindly recommend things.

All women. All. Everyone should run to buy this book and then read it. This is the most transformational book I've ever read. It explained my recent relationship of three years. My friend who sent it to me was able to end her Mr. Unavailable nightmare Sent it to my daughter and she stopped dating until she can get herself together. Sent it to other friends and likewise.It helps us sort out what love isn't. Anyone WANT to be a fallback girl? Do we want to teach our daughters how to almost immediatly recognize , identify and make healthy decisions based on a man's behavior? Can we raise savvy women so they can avoid the heartache, pain and confusion of dating or marrying an Unavailable man?This book says it all in a clear, concise, easy to read way.AND it does so without bashing, blaming or even criticizing. My friends and I sort of read it together even though we are spread over the globe, and supported one another in becoming educated and then ending toxic, manipulative relationships. Author Natalie Lue has brilliantly written this definitive guide.Interestingly enough, i was then given information on Dr. Greg Baer's Real Love books and programs, and I thought to myself..."Wow, first I'm given clear information on what love isn't, and now I'm being shown what Real Love IS" How COOL is that?Please RUN and buy this book. Best thing you'll ever read. If enough women read it, it will transform the planet.Oh by the way, my daughter sent it to a man she broomed, and he read it and thanked her. He said "I wish I'd had this book to clean up my past relationships. I won't date anyone until I get that done, and I'll make sure I work on the emotional issues I learned about for the rest of my life.My friends and I? Now we're going to read it again and look for and learn about our own patterns of unavailability.Thank you,Natalie Lue. I'm glad I could comment and tell others. If I could give this book a thousand stars....I would.

I rarely write reviews, but I felt compelled to write one for this amazing book. After my last relationship with a Mr. Unavailable, I wound up in back in a therapist chair for the millionth time since the age of 19. I was determined this time to stick with it and figure out why I fell for these men, and also, why I, in a lot of relationships, played the Mrs. Unavailable role, and behaved the same way as the men explained on these pages. At age 40, I finally saw the pattern, and also, many symptoms of myself, that I explained away, as just how I'm wired, or that's just me. I finally realized after 25 years of dating and 1 failed marriage, that I never opened my heart to anyone, men, friends, family, etc... and finally realized I was never going to be happy or successful in any relationship until I addressed the issues in myself.After finding an amazing therapist, I immersed myself in writing in my journal, and reading anything I could on childhood trauma, as well as, growing up with emotionally unavailable parents, and emotionally unavailable men. One day I stumbled onto Natalie Lue's amazing blog. After recognizing myself through her writing as both the fallback girl, as well as, Mr. Unavailable, so many puzzle pieces fell into place. I ordered this amazing book right away, and devoured it in one night. Wow. That night I had more aha moments than in months of twice a week therapy!! I recognized every man I had ever been with on these pages, as well as myself. I finally realized why I have always held myself back, not only in romantic relationships, but with family, friends, even pets!! Fear of getting hurt, fear of loss, fear of intimacy, the works. Not only does she point out that the reasons we attract and seek these men, she explains how to change this behavior. So far, I have purchased 4 copies for my "Fallback Girl" friends, and all have used this as a manual for their personal lives.If you have found yourself on this page to buy this book, it wasn't by accident. You've finally recognized that you are the Fallback Girl dating a Mr. Unavailable. You need to push Buy It Now, Sisters!!! If I could give this book 10 stars I would. Buy this book, and copies for your girls. Sincerely, this will bring so much to light.