Understanding Sibling Rivalry - The Brazelton Way

When I started doing research for my book about siblings in adulthood (Mom Still Likes You Best), I turned first to Dr. Brazelton for his thoughts. As usual, his combination of deep understanding and long experience paid off for me. I also got some insight into what my grandson was experiencing when his sister was born.The book also shows how the rivalry evolves over time, as the newcomer poses different challenges to the older child and the new baby grows up.His tone is kind and loving, both to children and parents. Brazelton is the best.

I was hoping for guidance on how to introduce our new baby to our toddler. This book is better suited for parents introducing a new baby to a child who is 3 years old and up. Brazelton mostly tells you what to say to your older child in certain situations, as they come up. He spends a lot of time describing, in detail, certain scenarios that might occur between siblings. For example, he describes how children play together and what behaviors might lead them to fight over a toy. I became bored with the psychological descriptions and wished he'd spent more time offering practical advice/ideas.

I bought this book while I was pregnant with my 3rd child. I have a 3 and 2 year old. It was a quick read and very interesting. Givs great insight as to what is going on in those toddler heads.

Best book ever about siblings!If you are expecting your second child, don't have any doubts and buy this book: it's so worth it!!

Best thermometer we have ever had--highly recommend.

I loved how succinct this book is, and the way it is organized makes it easy to use. if you have 2 children it's definitely worth a read. I have reread it now that I am expecting number 3!!

I am a journalist so I received an advanced copy of this book to review. I have a two year old and a newborn so I assumed "sibling rivalry" was years away. But when my two-year old started acting out (blatantly disobeying, throwing tantrums over apparently nothing), I turned to this book. There is an indepth section on what happens when a new baby enters the scene that has been a godsend. It has been such a relief to know that my older daughter's behavior is not just common, it's to be expected. This book has made understanding and dealing with her tantrums and defiance much easier. I feel confident that if and when the REAL rivalry begins I will be equipped to handle it in a loving and nurturing way.