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# Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: A Guide to Getting Over Your Partner's Past and Finding Peace

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Review: A must have for any RJ sufferer. - I just finished reading this book on Kindle, and I have to say that this book is worth every penny... and then some. I have been suffering with RJ for nearly 1 year. I tried to self heal and nothing seemed to work. Then I found the author, Zachary, online and started to follow his directions and found hope. He is honest, well spoken and an RJ survivor, so he knows what he's talking about. When he suggested this book, I purchased it immediately. I noticed a change quickly... even before reading it half way through and found my RJ fading fast. If you are suffering from RJ, do yourself and your partner a favor and get this book NOW! I guarantee, you won't be disappointed. I will be reading it again, it's just that good.
Review: Well worth the time - I was fine for many years, with a slight flare-up of Retroactive Jealousy now and then. Recently I was reflecting, and out of nowhere, Retroactive Jealousy struck me. I got the Kindle book and read it in two hours. There is nothing new or cutting-edge in the book. Still, Zachary Stockill does an excellent job of piecing together a variety of theories, information, and examples that will help you overcome Retroactive Jealousy. I read the book, immediately implemented some of his ideas, and saw some results. What I like about the book, it gives me an understanding of some of the issues, the causes, and solutions. For example, I dealt with Retroactive Jealousy regularly while I lived in the same town as my wife’s ex-boyfriend, and when we moved, there was a significant improvement. Zach’s discussion of triggers provided some excellent insight into why this was the case, and I could look back and see what the actual triggers were. Plus, now I can avoid triggers. Although the example of the field and clouds seems simple, I have used this as a reminder to move on and not entertain the thoughts of your partner and her past partners. It is all about controlling your thoughts and emotions and not going down the rabbit hole that will destroy you and your relationship. It is not the curse but the power you give the curse that influences your life. I told my wife I was reading the book, and she was quite pleased. I shared some of what I was doing with her, and now she can hold me accountable. If you are experiencing Retroactive Jealousy, take the time and do the work Zach suggests. I am currently working on the letters he offers writing. This is very therapeutic. On a side note, forgiveness was my key over the years.

## Technical Specifications

| Specification | Value |
|---------------|-------|
| Best Sellers Rank | #229,903 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #94 in Obsessive Compulsive Disorder #420 in Anxieties & Phobias #552 in Anxiety |
| Customer Reviews | 4.5 4.5 out of 5 stars (1,028) |
| Dimensions  | 6 x 0.24 x 9 inches |
| ISBN-10  | 1502891921 |
| ISBN-13  | 978-1502891921 |
| Item Weight  | 5.4 ounces |
| Language  | English |
| Print length  | 106 pages |
| Publication date  | October 18, 2014 |
| Publisher  | CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform |

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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ A must have for any RJ sufferer.
*by P***. on February 10, 2026*

I just finished reading this book on Kindle, and I have to say that this book is worth every penny... and then some. I have been suffering with RJ for nearly 1 year. I tried to self heal and nothing seemed to work. Then I found the author, Zachary, online and started to follow his directions and found hope. He is honest, well spoken and an RJ survivor, so he knows what he's talking about. When he suggested this book, I purchased it immediately. I noticed a change quickly... even before reading it half way through and found my RJ fading fast. If you are suffering from RJ, do yourself and your partner a favor and get this book NOW! I guarantee, you won't be disappointed. I will be reading it again, it's just that good.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Well worth the time
*by M***5 on March 23, 2023*

I was fine for many years, with a slight flare-up of Retroactive Jealousy now and then. Recently I was reflecting, and out of nowhere, Retroactive Jealousy struck me. I got the Kindle book and read it in two hours. There is nothing new or cutting-edge in the book. Still, Zachary Stockill does an excellent job of piecing together a variety of theories, information, and examples that will help you overcome Retroactive Jealousy. I read the book, immediately implemented some of his ideas, and saw some results. What I like about the book, it gives me an understanding of some of the issues, the causes, and solutions. For example, I dealt with Retroactive Jealousy regularly while I lived in the same town as my wife’s ex-boyfriend, and when we moved, there was a significant improvement. Zach’s discussion of triggers provided some excellent insight into why this was the case, and I could look back and see what the actual triggers were. Plus, now I can avoid triggers. Although the example of the field and clouds seems simple, I have used this as a reminder to move on and not entertain the thoughts of your partner and her past partners. It is all about controlling your thoughts and emotions and not going down the rabbit hole that will destroy you and your relationship. It is not the curse but the power you give the curse that influences your life. I told my wife I was reading the book, and she was quite pleased. I shared some of what I was doing with her, and now she can hold me accountable. If you are experiencing Retroactive Jealousy, take the time and do the work Zach suggests. I am currently working on the letters he offers writing. This is very therapeutic. On a side note, forgiveness was my key over the years.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ A Game Changer
*by A***Y on February 13, 2025*

I was skeptical of both the subject matter and the book itself, but purchased it anyway out of desperation. My angst was just getting to be too much and I knew I had to do something (and if you've tried getting into therapy post-COVID, you know what an effort in futility that is). This book was a game changer for me. The frankness, the relatable anecdotes...it really was a "OMG, other people are like me? Dear god I'm so sorry" kind of moment for me. I did the exercises. I wrote the letters. I got to the last chapter and wasn't ready, so I walked away for a bit. And then I came back to it and realized...it had all worked. I'm not cured, but dammit if I'm not better. Acknowledge your pain, accept that the work needs to be done, and read the damn book. You won't be sorry.

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